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Questions are asked in the above hindi song. I too had several questions in my mind, when I was in my twenties and thirties.
Few ANSWERS to this song is available in the below link.
We all try to find answers to several questions in our phase of life. The unmatured innosence within us, like a child, asks questions. As answers are necessary to live a calm life. Satisfaction and joy is experienced when answers are realised by our minds.
I N D I A - Has To - C H A N G E.
Why Did Kishore Kumar Sing This - S O N G.
He was Not a - F O O L - indeed.
L O V E – is Sharing, Caring, Healing, Divine.
It is - N O T – Pain, Suffering, Slavery, Misery.
Woman must Not Expect Man to be Slave.
Indian Woman Need To Change.
Change their Attitude and Thinking.
Need to be Humble and Respect Love.
Determined and Responsible and Courageous.
Spread Love to Heal and Empower.
Man and Woman are Equal.
Man and Women are two important parts of humanity.
They are both equally independent and responsible,
to lead and create a satisfying happy society.
Each of us need to realize our humble objective of life, purpose of life,
we need to contribute whatever we are comfortable with,
to achieve satisfaction and happiness in life.
It is very important to be a GOOD and Humble Human-Being before being a,
Sister or brother, a mother or a father, a husband or a wife, a friend or a companion.
Both men and women have equal respect and responsibility.
Neither Women are superior to men, nor a Man is superior to a women.
Humans are respected only when they are HUMBLE and GENTLE.
RESPECT and Dignity is very important in every relationship.
It is improper and a bad attitude to impart EGO of Superiority.
Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.
She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.
She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.
She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA.
Two sides of the same coin. Apart from the above fact, the true fact is that there are a few manipulative, wicked, in-matured, self-centered, possessive, women with ego of superiority to showoff.
Here is a very nice song "Ye Jo Mohabbat Hai" by "Kishore Kumar".
In this song, the male artist describes the attitude of women.
He says that the women expects her man, to die on her behalf.
(in hindi: "mar jaye, mit jaye, ho jaye badnam")
And she expects him to loose his respect, by spoiling his character.
It defines women's attitude, desire to control her man.
She expects him to be her slave, to die on her behalf.
To lose his self respect, status and reputation in the society.
By doing so she intends to attain respect and admiration of others in society.
She expects to attain her dignity by destroying her man. Which is absolutely wrong and inadvisable.
It also signifies a women's attitude of possessiveness, dominance and manipulative behavior, which is materialistic and destructive.
When a man Loves a women she tries to take advantage of his weakness. Instead of appreciating him, she tries to blackmail him.
Thus the man refuses to love women.
It is definitely appreciated if women would look at her man as one of her good friends, with equal respect and understanding.
Without expecting him to die on her behalf, or to lose his respect on her behalf.
This kind of behavior, attitude and expectations of women, towards her man may destroy his psychological balance.
It may destroy his self-respect and individuality, leading to frustrations.
Thus the man in-order to cope up with such emotional disrespect may land up with addictions of alcohol, tobacco, drugs, etc.
This may lead to his destruction.
It is thus advisable to women not to expect her man to be her slave.
In-order to maintain equal respect and dignity, to look at him as a respectable human being.
Rather than a slave, or as an object to satisfy her evil desire.
This kind of attitude in women is responsible for destroying the value of sacred LOVE between a man and a women. The man in this song is AFRAID to fall in LOVE.
Love is the strongest power on earth, which can heal, cure and motivate humans.
At the same time it can be dangerous and destructive if manipulated and misused to achieve her selfish motive.
Few women expect her man to create huge amount of wealth, so that she can enjoy the ego of superiority in the materialistic society, which is absolutely wrong.
They expect her man to fulfill all her possessive desires.
Here is a nice video I came across while surfing ArtOfLiving,
The Secret of Relationships - by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar - News 9
While I was watching this nice video, while Guruji talks about relationships between Husband and Wife. Guruji explains do's and dont's for both men and women. While I was watching this video I started wondering why was Guruji still not married? Similarly, many Famous Indian Leaders like, Anna Hazare ji, Atal Bihari Vajpayee ji, Maulana Abul Kalam ji, Sri Sri Guruji, and many more have not married. I was just wondering what would be the reason for them to be single. It is natural for men to marry, as marriage is considered to be a respectable and sacred relationship. Also being said that it is continued from one life to another, from soul to soul. As Hindu religion considers the role models of Radhe Krishna, Ram Sita, Shiva Parvati, etc. Our youngsters do need role-models of successful married couples, so that they can learn form them, to lead a satisfying and happier life.
Not only in India, but in the entire world, and also the entire human evolution, right from Adam and Eve, Marriage is denoted as the most respectable relationship between man and women to attain salvation.
Every Indian woman is pious and worships her husband with divinity. Even Guruji explains the same concept. But after all this why would Guruji not marry? is the question pondering.
Love in different forms:
Behind every successful Life there is a Man.
Behind every successful Man there is a Woman.
Behind every successful Woman there is a Desire.
Behind every successful Desire there is a Purpose.
Behind every successful Purpose there is a Faith.
Behind every successful Faith there is a Belief.
Behind every successful Belief there is a Prayer.
Behind every successful Prayer there is pure Love.
Behind every successful Love there is a true Heart.
This successful Love is everywhere. Trees Love the leaves. Leaves Love the sun. Sun Love the planets. Rivers Love the water. Birds Love the fruits. Bees Love the flowers.
Love is Nature’s creation. It’s in different forms.
Sometimes as a Brother or a Sister.
Sometimes as a Father or a Mother.
Sometimes as a Healer or a Teacher.
Sometimes as a Friend or a Companion.
It’s better to take them as they come. United we Stand and Divided we Fall.
One supreme soul with Unity in Diversity.
May you be blessed with this “Successful Life”.
We All Live and Die here itself.
Haven and Hell Both are here itself.
Be Wise to Live a Good Life, to Create Heaven.
Be Humble to Create Peace.
Help Ever, Hurt Never.
